OK. Not really.
But you cruise around on the internet and you hear all these incels and MGTOWs cry. You would think women have it so easy. After all, men have expectations thrust upon them, there is active discrimination in the workplace makes it tough to compete with women and women are given unfair advantages.
Some of it may be true, but still is it something you would really wish for?
Dating Marketplace
Here is the deal, women have an advantage in the dating marketplace......for a short time. In those 15 years, the average woman gets attention from men of all ages. If she decides to sleep around at that time, her perception of reality is skewed. Guys who are 8's and 9's will be hitting on her for sex, but she will mistake that for relationship potential. The carousel is like a drug for her. She will go out to the nightclubs and on Tinder for that regular dopamine hit as thirsty betas validate her poor self esteem, and the occasional Chad will get her rocks off whenever she wants.This skewed perception of reality is amplified by feminists in the media. "Sugar and spice and everything nice...." is one of the many false perceptions she gets. A woman's blue pill tells her she is better than she is (which is one reason they hold on to it so much more). Sadly, this derailment from reality comes right at the time when a young woman is finding her trajectory in life and they do not have the maturity to see things as they are. Many women have ruined their lives on account of a few stupid decisions at that age.
10-15 years later, when the Chads stop knocking on her door and reality comes crashing home, and she needs to "find a real man", she finally sees the errors of her ways, but now it is too late. Average guys may still want her for sex, but not for a relationship. Her being a 5, Chad never wanted her for a relationship at any time. She gets a dose of reality, but only when it is too late. If she was a carousel riding 5, she got sex with the 8 and 9 guys, but with her history, she will have to settle with a 3 if she wants a marriage. She could of had a marriage with a 5 or a 6, but with her history, she can't get his attention anymore. She knows this and will never be content for the remainder of her days, even if the 3 is a good, honest guy. If she divorces him, she limits her options even more.
Guys on the other hand, have their perception skewed the other way. In their younger years, an average guy will be out-competed by the older guys who have an established careers or the Chad types. This is compounded by the media "slugs and snails and puppy dog tails". His blue pill tells him he is worse than he actually is.
10-15 years later, when the career is growing and reality comes crashing home, the average guy has options. He can get the relationship he wants, or not. With a good career, he is not naturally dependent on a woman like she is biologically dependent on a man to fulfill the desire for kids and family. Unless he got into drugs or crime, he did not have that carrot of temptation dangling out in front of him like a woman does during her 20's. He spent his youth building himself up, not using herself up like a woman does. No regrets there. As an average 5, now that he has a career and a life, he can pull in the younger 5's and 6's for a good relationship if he wants. If she is a good, honest girl, he will be satisfied with her as he never will feel like he is settling for something less like a woman will.
Career
Women have it good in the career field. Affirmative action and social expectations make it easier for women in the career field. Colleges cater to women, and hiring practices favor women. The thing is, women are biologically programmed to stay home and make babies, not to go out and kill the wildebeest. Feminism teaches women to go for the big careers, so they go, but it is not in them. They are more agreeable creatures, they are not the risk takers, they don't want the long hours. They do not want the demanding career. Consequently, they work less and stagnate in their skills. It is like clockwork that their income will stagnate compared to men.Men on the other hand, are not coddled in education and in hiring practices. He has to earn real skill to compete, and so he does. He cannot let his skills stagnate, and so his job remains more competitive, more interesting, and more fulfilling. Men get more responsibilities thrust upon them, because they have to prove it. They do not have the "soft bigotry of low expectations" that women have, which stagnates a people. They have the hard bigotry to deal with and has to be overcome, which strengthens the individual and creates his ability to have more gains later in life.
In addition, women will juggle motherhood with her career as she is programmed to do. Her personal choices will be for the easier (and less paying) careers. She will have several years in her mid-life rearing babies, which will put her career on ice for a time.
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The obvious biological differences are great too. Strength, intelligence, reflexes, dexterity, are just a few biological advantages men have over women. It would be a rare thing for a woman to be able to climb on a horse bareback. Just about every skill that one person can dominate over another, anything from chess to rugby to shooting to racing (car or foot) to painting to writing to mathematics to cooking are all dominated by men, despite the "progressive" advantages given to women.In addition, there is the monthly crimson tide, childbirth and lactating that a woman has to deal with that we as men do not.
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