Women have a choice to make. They can live for the moment and reap the benefits of the here and now, or they can dedicate their lives to a greater good and reap the benefits later in life. While not every woman is the same and life throws different obstacles to everyone, there are trends that seem to occur. This is a compilation of four women I know: my wife, her grandma, a girl I chased in my youth, and a friend's grandma. (names are changed)
0 to 10
At this age, typically the traditional woman "Molly" will have it better. She grows up in a stable home with a loving father and mother and learn to play with dolls and her brothers and sisters. Her home life is a pleasant place where she is valued and taught right from wrong.The stereotypical thot "Sabrina" will have a rougher upbringing. Her mom divorced her dad and there is alcohol and cigarettes around. She is given toys to play with, but she spends her time watching TV with her half-brother. She clamors for attention from her mom by being a little snot (just following the example of her mom)
11 to 15
Molly is continuing her childhood. She gets a lamb to raise in 4H and her mom teaches her to cook. Boys are looking at her, but she ignores them for the most part. Her mom and dad won't let her date yet. She notices Sabrina getting more attention than her, and she is a little jealous. However, she enjoys having ice cream with her dad and competing in track.Sabrina has found she has a new power of the older boys in her school. They are flirting with her, and she flirts back. She is enamored by the amount of attention she is getting. She makes fun of Molly and calls her a prude. At 13, she gets invited to a party with the older boys and tries her first drink. Later on that night, this High School Sophomore convinces her to have sex with him. She loves it, and her world is opened to a new world of fun.
16 to 22
At 16, Molly's parents give her the go ahead to date, but they are watchful. Molly gets asked out by a good kid in her class, so they go to a church dance. She loves the attention her date gives her, but he is kind of a nerd. Meanwhile, the popular kids ignore her. Too many times, she made awkward comments and isolated herself as a prude. She goes off to college to study Agriculture as she loves animals. She meets a number of good friends in the church program and she has fun socializing. At 20, she meets this guy who is new in the church "Jim" professes his love to her and does everything he can to get her to date him. She decides she needs to serve a mission for her church, and takes 18 months to do the work of the Lord. He and a couple other guys write to her while she is knocking on doors. Jim decides to go on a mission too while she is away.Sabrina is having the time of her life. She is smoking hot with her new breast implants and guys from all over are giving her attention. She has sex with too many guys to count, and she lavishes in the gifts she is given. At 19, one of the more awkward guys "Jim" wanted to date her and get her into a long term relationship. He follows her around and she friend-zones him. No way, she is having way too much fun to end the good times she is having now, especially with a boring guy like that. He drops out of her life. She goes off to college to learn Sociology. This interests her as the classes teach how women need more power in society. She brags to her friends how she got sex from three guys one night at a frat party.
23 to 30
When Molly gets home from her mission, Jim is there but he was getting sick of her playing hard to get, so he decides to take another girl to a church social. Molly becomes jealous, so she immediately changes course and clamors for his attention again. They soon begin an 8 month engagement to be married. They get married and that night Molly has sex for the first time. College is tough for her senior year, especially with the morning sickness as they finish up college in their tiny apartment. When the small family gets out of college, Jim starts his engineering profession, and they work to build up savings with little kids at home.Sabrina has a lot of fun. That is, until she gets pregnant from a guy she hardly knows. She decides to keep the baby, and issue a court order for the father to pay child support. Now, she is in a pickle. She uses her body (that's all she knows) to try to convince other men to marry her. After 5 years of this, she finally settles with this guy. She knows she could have done better if she done things in the right order, but he promises to take care of her. She dropped out of college to have the baby, and he is a laborer working construction. Money is tight, even with her working as a cashier at a quickie mart.
30 to 40
Jim is doing decent in his job while Molly stays home, but motherhood is a full time gig with homeschooling, cleaning and changing diapers, not to mention putting dinner on the table for when Jim gets home. It can be stressful at times, but the large family is happy and they do things on the weekends. Jim focuses on becoming a more attractive husband and father for her and the family.Sabrina's husband cheated on her and left. She doesn't mind. After all, she cheated too but didn't get caught until she announced it during one of their earlier fights. She works at a different quickie mart, and the welfare and child support checks come in to help pay for her and the 3 kids she now has. She loves to go out with her friends to the clubs on the weekends, but the guys aren't picking up on her as much as they used to. Still, she gets sex often enough, even if it is with less desirable men than she had in the past.
40 to 50
Molly and Jim are living life. Their oldest kids are in high school now, family life is decent. The sex and weekends are still good. The 401k is growing, along with the kids.Sabrina is getting worried about her kids. They seem to be getting into more and more trouble. She hears about Jim and Molly and how they are doing. She kind of resents him now. "If only..." goes through her mind. Guys have stopped giving her attention and she constantly wonders where the good men all went. Work is tiring, but she needs to have the money.
50 to 60
Molly is a grandma! Her oldest boy married a sweet young girl and they are now popping out kids. She loves the grandma role, baking cookies, knitting and helping out at church. She busies herself raising the younger kids and takes a part time job while they are in school.Sabrina is a grandma too. Too early however, her youngest daughter had a baby in high school and so she dropped out of school and moved in with him. She is all alone now. Still, life is tolerable with her new dogs she calls her "children". Guys have lost all interest in her, and she now resents men now for using her in the past. Work sucks.
60 to 70
Molly has more grandkids now. Upon retirement and the last of the kids move out, they decide to serve a couple's mission and end up doing service work in Argentina. Jim uses his engineering experience to set up a water distribution system in a local village while they work with the locals there to help grow the church.Sabrina gets lonely at times, but she keeps herself busy taking care of her cat mittens, and her two dogs. It is nice to not have to stand in the checkout lines anymore. The bunions from those high heeled shoes in her youth are painful and the cough from all those cigarettes is painful too.
70 to 80
Molly and Jim enjoy the retired life. They have a travel trailer and see the coast. When they are at home, family stops by and mows the lawn now. Thanksgiving is especially fun. There are over 30 descendants now and the family keeps growing.Sabrina feels alone. The TV is the only respite from the long hours of nothingness. Then one day, she trips on her cat and breaks her hip. She is taken into a state run retirement home to finish out her years.
80 to 90
It is tougher now. Jim just passed away, but the kids and grand kids stop by often enough. The kids organize a family reunion, and Molly is the guest of honor. Six families, 53 descendants in all come to pay her their respects. There is lots of noise with the great-grand kids around, but it is a blast.Sabrina develops dementia and is a ward of the state now. The kids never stop by. Eventually, life is done and she welcomes it.
Watch this video, it is very explanatory of why some women make certain choices.
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