Men's Walls

It's true. Women have a wall, and men have walls. The difference is men have their walls placed in front of them right from the onset at 15. Until they climb over these walls, their access to finding success in life and in the relationship marketplace is nil.

A woman's wall is placed 30-40 years down the road, but it is more of a roadblock and there is no going over it. She has to be set with a family and a husband to be with her by this time, or she will end up a messed up wreck.

Men's walls are not unconquerable either. They are more like obstacles, and there are several.

At 15, a kid needs to show some signs of puberty. He needs to build muscle, show some maturity, and be able to handle himself in a conversation.

At 16, he needs to drive. With the license, he needs a source of money.

By 17, he needs to show direction and ambition. Have a plan of action for your life.

By 18, he needs to have a job. At this point, any job will do, but there needs to be a source of income.

By 21, he needs to be actively executing a lifelong plan. He needs to be in job with potential advancement, in college, or in the military.

By 28, he needs a stable career and a well rounded, level headed personality.

If the guy does not climb over these obstacles, he will be just as lost in the marketplace as any cat lady in their 50's. The longer he puts off crossing these obstacles, the more women will notice his incompetency and if he fails to ever cross any of them, his options are bleak.

In this day, many guys are throwing in the towel and saying things like, "The juice isn't worth the squeeze". True, we do not need to be living for female validation. But these hurdles are not there for the women, they are there for us to overcome and grow. By overcoming these obstacles, we will become the men that will find success and happiness in life. Women will then come, but that is the added bonus, not the main focus.