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13 Reasons Why The Beta Guy Is So Much Better


Alpha guys are always painted as the most desirable on the planet. They’re strong, self-assured, and are happy to take charge. That’s not to say that alphas aren’t great partners, but here are 13 reasons that beta guys can be much more enjoyable to date.
There is this thing called real world experience that feminists and college intellectuals often overlook. Women go for the strong, self-assured, and happy to take charge. Always have, always will.

1. They’re not power-hungry.
True, but the lack of desire for power comes at a real cost. People will run over the beta. A beta guy will put up with it, and the girl he is dating will see that and walk away in disgust, or if she wants the power, will latch onto him and take him for everything he has.

2. They don’t have to cause a scene.
Neither do alphas. Causing a scene is something women do because they want the white-knights in the periphery to back her up. The beta will back down, the alpha will stand his ground.

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4. They don’t always have to take charge.
The alpha man will turn up and take charge, and that can be sexy at first. However, when the relationship becomes more serious you might wish for a guy who actually stops and lets you be in control every now and then.
I think you are confusing alpha with coercive behavior. The alpha will take charge when appropriate, when there are real consequences. Deciding what's for dinner is a woman's responsibility. Stay out of his domain, and he will afford you the same courtesy. 

5. They don’t think it’s a done deal.
Since the alpha guys have spent their entire lives being worshipped for their good looks and charm, this can go to their heads. The beta guys know that they can’t rely on these superficial traits.
I don't think you appreciate how much effort it takes for a guy to become the alpha. It does not happen by chance. They are constantly having to fight and win their position in life. Women with good genetics only have to be the right age to get all sorts of favorable attention. Men have to develop strength and charisma, that comes through years of struggle.
That means:

6. They make more effort.
Nope. The beta only makes more effort in pleasing the woman in a way that only benefits her. The alpha puts in effort, but that is in building himself up and competing with others, not pleasing others.

7. They don’t stress as much.
Absolutely not. The betas are constantly stressing out, trying to please others who will take everything they can.

8. They’re more centered.
If the alpha guy comes across as confident, chances are underneath that exterior he might be insecure. Again, it’s because these guys are all about their egos. The beta guy, on the other hand, can just be himself and he’s more in tune with what he’s about without being so obsessed with being number one.

(I had to keep this text on how stupid it is.) Betas will never, ever "just be himself". He is changing his whole life for her, and she will resent him for that.

9. They’re not looking for a trophy girlfriend.
All guys are looking for the same thing, we just have different ways of going about it.

10. They don’t promise you the world.
The alpha male will enter your life and promise you everything, including his heart. Then he’ll ghost you after a fantastic date because he’s just after the chase and he’s being led by his ego. The beta male is more in tune with his real feelings and what he wants, and he doesn’t have to try so hard to impress you. Because of this, he comes across as more genuine from the start.

Alphas do what works. Betas haven't figured out what works until it is too late and he offers too much. 

11. They can show weakness.

The beta has nothing but weakness to show.

12. They can handle your emotions.
He puts us with your whining and whinging. I feel sorry for the guy.

13. They don’t always want to be right.
Again, being "always right" is not alpha, it is dipshit behavior.

14. They don’t compete with you.
A beta male won’t try to be the best in the relationship. As mentioned earlier, he’ll be cool with you taking control every now and then, but he’ll also want to watch you succeed without striving to be better than you. That means, he’ll be there to support you in your success as well as your failures.
I'm going to chalk this one up to you competing with him. Any strong individual does not "compete" with a weaker one. He may assert dominance, but the decision to compete goes to the weaker one. Bickering is the woman's decision. If you view him as the beta and he goes along with it, you two will not bicker as much, due to the fact that laws and society will not "even the score" for him. If he loses dominance in your household, there is no recourse for him. You can divorce rape him, you can cheat on him, you can abuse the crap out of him, you can take his children, and he has to put up with it. Nothing to argue about there. 

CONCLUSION

This woman is making her necessity a virtue now that she is hitting the wall and can't get the Alpha. Hamsters running amuck.

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