11. Why do you think that just because you’re nice to me, I owe you my body?
Because you are dealing with a loser who thinks attraction is negotiable. Of course there are guys out there with this mindset, they are taught the same Disney propaganda that you were taught. They think if he gives candy and flowers, it somehow makes you interested. You have every right to walk away.
However, what you don't have the moral right to do is to string a guy along, pretending that you are somewhat attracted, or "haven't decided" in order to get guys to be nice to you. This is using people, this is deceiving, thievery, and quite disgusting. When guys finally figure out that you are manipulating them, he is ticked off, for good reason. It is not because you are refusing sex from him. The friend zone hurts guys, and wastes his time when he could have been pursuing other options.
Women: if he hints, or asks you out, do not give the "I'm busy", or "I would love to, but I have a boyfriend right now" crap. Take some fortitude, and tell him "Sorry, but I'm not interested". He will be sad, but not heartbroken if you are up front about it. In the end, he will appreciate that you respected him enough to not give him the runaround.
One other thing, just because you sleep with a guy does not mean he owes you any money or commitment. Dinner is great, and gifts are nice, but that is as far as it goes. Stop with the lame expectations. What is good for the gander is also good for the goose.
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