50 Red Flags Part 4 - Texting

 

If this is what you see on your date and she is slow to text back, dump her like the user she is


4. When they don’t text you back quick, but they are always on their phone.

If you are dating a girl and she is always on her phone, that is probably enough of a red flag by itself. She has a dopamine addiction and will not be able to handle the inevitable loss of attention once you two become exclusive. 

What is worse, is if she acts like this and is slow to text you back, she holds her online friends as more important than you in real life. Her priorities are messed up, and she is probably just using you as a foodie call. 

A woman who is attracted to you will be quick to respond when you shoot her a text. Or, if she doesn't text back quick, she will respond with a "Sorry, I went hiking up the canyon with Jill and Tammy and didn't have cell phone reception".

Phone Etiquette

One thing, don't just keep texting back and forth. You are the man and you need to be a little more stoic with your phone usage. Let her chase you, not the other way around. If you are chasing her, always texting back quick or blowing up her phone, giving her little smoopsy heart and lip emojis, she will think of you as thirsty, low value, and/or not having much going on in your life. Stop it, get some help. If you text back and forth 3 times or more, just dial her number and call her.

Cell phones aren't as cool as they used to be




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